But it seems that you, you know, do it at all. Some people I've come across either don't look at themselves at all, or if they do they're so blinkered they can't even get an honest assessment. Or they just lie to themselves, to return to the previous subject.

It's hard, but worth it. And while almost no one can do it all the time, I find that those who do have a more clear picture of where they are in the word.

"Blimey, those two can talk!"